F. Darlene Smith

F. Darlene Smith, a remarkable woman whose life was filled with love, and community, took her final bow on August 12, 2024, at the age of 83. Born on May 31, 1941, in Chadron, Nebraska, she blossomed into a life characterized by independence, creativity, and a generosity of spirit that touched everyone fortunate enough to know her.

Darlene's educational journey began at the Parks School of Business in Denver, Colorado, where she graduated with a degree in Secretarial Studies in 1959. It was a foundation that set the stage for her leadership qualities as she played an integral role alongside her husband, Paul E. Smith (Smitty), in establishing and nurturing Smitty’s Diesel in Cheyenne, Wyoming, and later, Smitty’s Truck Stop, known fondly as the State Line Cafe, in Pine Bluffs, Wyoming. Her commitment to the family business extended beyond business hours, reflecting her unwavering determination and love for her family.

Beyond her professional endeavors, Darlene was the heart of her family. The warmth of her kitchen embraced many gatherings; the aroma of her fried chicken and a myriad of homemade meals lingered in the cherished memories of her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Family was life’s sweetest endeavor for Darlene, and her culinary gifts were a testament to her nurturing nature.

In her retirement, Darlene found joy in simple pleasures—creating small art projects, diving into novels, solving puzzles, and passionately supporting her beloved Rockies baseball team. Each leisurely moment she spent surrounded by her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren was a testament to her never-ending desire to support and uplift her family. Her dry sense of humor and creativity made every interaction with her sparkle, ensuring that laughter always filled the room.

Darlene leaves behind a loving legacy, remembered by her children: Denise Smith-Kneip (John), Douglas Smith (Denise), Toni Ayers (Carl), and Susan Hudson (Jerry). She is also survived by her adored grandchildren, Ammisty Aguilar (Luis), Johnathan Carter (Dawn), Chelsea Bates, Brandon Smith, Ashlea Smith, Travis Ayers (Chelsie), Dustin Smith (Michelle), Desirea Seabern (George), Torrie Hudson (John), and Jerry Hudson, Jr., along with 15 great-grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews who hold her memory dear.

Reunited in spirit with those who have gone before her, Darlene is welcomed by her beloved husband, Paul E. Smith (Smitty), parents, John and Dorothy Jezek; her sister and brother-in-law, Maxine and Don Schilz; and her nephew, Darin Jacobsen, as well as niece Denise Schilz. She is also joined in remembrance by her father and mother-in-law, David and Ruby Smith, and several brothers-in-law and a sister-in-law.

Darlene Smith was a beacon of light whose spirit will forever illuminate the hearts of her loved ones. Though she has departed, her strength, kindness, and laughter will continue to inspire and comfort those she leaves behind.

A private family gathering, and meal will be held in her honor.